New year's Resolution - 2013

Some of my friends asked me for a party tonight... They wanna enjoy new year with fun... but then I asked myself, will this be a really HAPPY new year? How about that victim's family? will they get their daughter, sister, friend back? then how come it's happy for them? I m so much sad and shameful on myself as well as our system and country that i told my frnds, "No guys, you carry on.. i can't come for party not even for movie..." It's SAD for whole country then how come it be Happy New Year?  

Yes, I am talking about that 23-year old girl's gang rape case.
 
I am not wishing Happy New Year to anybody, I am just praying that what was happened in 2012 (That Shame and Sadness) should not be repeated in any percentage at any cost in 2013.

Request to all Parents, specially fathers that please guide your son to respect woman by respecting woman. It's not child's fault, child will repeat the same when he become adult, what he saw in his childhood.

Teach your son that females are not weak; they are sensitive, they are sweet, they are adorable to make you complete...

Teach your son that if every female has some part of saraswati (Patience & calmness) then the same female also has some part of DURGA, KAALI (Justice). Don't force them to hate all manhood.

I don't know why people celebrate the male child birth, if they can't give him proper education, proper environment and so called SANSKAAR... If parents fail in this, then the same boy will become rapist one day.

Don't take the examination of her anger, otherwise the day is not far when we see MALE foeticide :(

She is a mother, sister, wife, daughter, friend; I still remember when I was weak in any situation that time my mother helped me, my sister listened me, my female friends gave me a good and righteous advice.

Men are always be incomplete without women and vice versa. Please contribute to maintain this dignity by educating your son.

I repeat, child will repeat the same when he become adult, what he saw in his childhood.

Respect women and let your son learn same from you. Father is the superhero for SON. Don't create a bad image of super hero; otherwise he can't differentiate between the deeds of villain and Hero.

This should be your new year's resolution. May we all live in Healthy India (from all perspectives), and healthy world in coming years

Jai Hind
Aameen

-- Sumeet Singh

21st Dec, 2012

This date needs no introduction. People with a zest for life, are of the opinion that nothing will happen on this date and that we all will see the sunrise on Dec 22, 2012, Santa will again bring awesome gifts for us, we will once again rock on new year's eve and, we will surely be proud spectators to the commencement of 2013.

No doubt people are so optimistic and they have to be, as my motive is always to spread positive energy. But there is nothing wrong if I say that they are somehow, somewhere worried about their dear ones. Parents worry about their children, lovers worry about their beloved ones, and friends worry about their best pals. Where there is affection, there will be care; and where there is care, there will be a fear of losing a dear one.  

Future is unpredictable and it will always be. Don’t worry about what will happen on this date or any other damn date. I don’t like people who say in their late years, “I would be someone else if this had happened, I would spend my rest of life with this person if something had happened, I would do something else if that had happened”. I don’t like 'if's'. Do whatever you want to do right now, live how you want to live right now so that you never have to say “If”.

We are fortunate to know our date of birth, but nobody is aware of his date of death. Don’t worry about that date and don’t even dare to calculate it by any means. Just try to appreciate the presence of your loved ones in your life, respect their care towards you and do reciprocate, teach generations how to live life and set examples for them to teach this to  their generations.

Stop worrying from the depth of your heart; live like this is the only week left in your life. Give sometime to your near and dear ones and try to make them realize how much you are thankful to them for making you an essential part of their lives. Enjoy each and every moment and live life to the fullest.

We are not sure what will happen on Dec 21, 2012 but what we can do is, to live at least this week on our own principles. Spread as much happiness as you can, as this is the last chance. So stop being a culprit and never ever say “If”. 

There will be no fun to live a long but boring life... It is better if you can live a life with whoever and however you want; doesn't matter how short it will be...

So don't panic and don't fear predictions, rumours, or various speculations. Just love your love and I am sure that your love will also love you back.

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Sumeet Singh