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Saturday 6 October 2012

What is Right and What is Wrong?



Some of my near and dear ones always asking me some of the related questions about their situations and deeds... I always try to give a best answer and try to overwhelm them with my opinions.... 
Let me jot down some of the thoughts related to this topic.....

In our childhood, when we don't have much understanding on materialistic and non-materialistic things at that time our brain was so questionable.... 

We used to ask questions to our teachers, parents, seniors, siblings, cousins on various topics and try to understand the gist. 

We made up our mind with whatsoever information is available from our surroundings. We believe on them and hence we believe on their thoughts.... and in results, we stop asking questions, We stop arguing on topics because we believe on their thoughts, or rather I should say their myths, so blindly that we don't even want to understand the corner cases or may be the major cases in current scenarios.

But if you try to think a little bit on the whole scenario, then you may understand that these things are relative terms. 

As is understood, some of the things are right in particular geographical region, custom, area, or tribe and the same would be wrong in others and vice versa.

The particular society has decided on their past experiences that what is right and what is wrong and hence it has been delivered to us. 
The society took decisions on basis of past experiences and sample rates and hence formed strict, rigid and static statements.

As far as i understood, nothing can be right in each scenario and nothing can be wrong. I repeat, it's again a relative terms and hence it's very difficult to make a definition for right and wrong. 
According to me, the activity or an object whose intake or in contact wouldn't affect my health in bad conditions as well as my mental or emotional state in bad condition then it's RIGHT or GOOD thing else it's bad.

Again you may change your decision on age basis or experience basis but you can't define a static statements for your upcoming generations. 

And for god sake, religion has nothing to do with RIGHT or WRONG it's totally related to your physical health and your emotional/mental state…

It's your life and you are quite matured enough to take decision on above mentioned two critical points. Don't bound yourself; try the different aspects of nature

I don't want to take a particular example for this topic as it might become so controversial and I hate controversies. So hope you got my point and may be try to think once on these basis, 
as i already said in my other blog that CHANGE is the only constant; hence we also require change in our perspective.

Believe me it's totally a game of perspectives, just change your perspective and may be one new world is waiting for you for your welcome.

In a nutshell: If your act and deed doesn't affect you as well as others health and doesn't affect your as well as others mental state then it's always right otherwise undoubtedly wrong. 

P.S
If you have any particular question or special case to discuss more on this then please feel free to comment on this blog and I will try to reply ASAP as best as my knowledge.

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Sumeet Singh

9 comments:

  1. Really every thought is so meaningful , specially i liked the first one most that - "We made up our mind with whatsoever information is available from our surroundings". And i believe this is true even if you have grown up until unless someone very special to you , argues on the same. People try to accept almost every details they find in their surroundings without being judged , at least in my case. And this is an adequate decision also, at the very first time.
    Yes ! the relativity applies to every matter. Someone or something is so keen to you but not for the others.

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    1. Yes Gaurav, whatsoever is done is the past and you always welcome to start a new beginning with new and fresh thoughts..

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  2. This is one of the fantastic blog that i have read in recent past !!

    It gives insight into how person gets sucked into the (social)system over a period of time as he grows along & starts accepting practices as undeniable point of truth. It meticulously unveil's that there exist nothing but good & bad in the world, and the Right's & Wrong's are subjectively defined at a given point in time as per one's (having power) convenience & conformt, like for instance, sati system once legally accepted as social practice in society is now seen as illegal evil practice.

    I'm glad sumeet that you've nicely dealt with such essential topic in a incredible way...2 words...great blog !!

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    1. Yes Shaik, not only the Sati pratha there are and there were many such customs and traditions that ppl are following blindly... People don't wanna use their brain, they don't even think a little bit of all the pros and cons...

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  3. I CAN STATE ONLY ONE THING U SAID IN UR BLOG DT ONE THING IS RIGHT IN ONE REGION MAY BE WRONG IN OTHER....
    BUT I 9 ONE THING DT IS WRNG IN EVERY REGION AND DT THING OR EVIL PRACTICE IS THIS EDUCATION SYSTEM OR STUDY TO BE MORE PRECISE....AAHHHH IT REALY SUCKS MAN... BLV ME BRO IT SUCKS ALL THE CREATIVITY FRM U OTHRWIS WHO 9S I MIGHT B THE NXT SHAKESPEAR

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    1. Bro, still you have many years to go... so don't feel down.. we are not Shakespeare by birth... If we have creativity then we have to work on it so that it will get sharpen and work for someone's wellness.. All the best

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  4. Very Nice blog sir.Actually it makes me to think over all the things that i took in my life as it is without giving it even a single thought that whether it was logical right or not.

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  5. Yup,, Sir..

    Really nice and motivating blog it is. Addition to it people have to think at least twice before taking any decision.

    Taken from your post " just change your perspective and may be one new world is waiting for you for your welcome." is really very true. And also the very famous quote is "we see things as we are not as they are".

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  6. Nice thinking Sumeet.
    Impressed :-)

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